Ben Affleck recently offered a rare glimpse into his life with Jennifer Lopez and their experiences with social media. In a candid conversation with comedian Kevin Hart on the show “Hart to Heart,” Affleck delved into the unique dynamics of living with a superstar like Lopez and how it affects their blended family.
Affleck, 51, was the first guest on the new season of the Peacock series, amid swirling rumors about his marriage to Lopez. While the interview primarily focused on Affleck’s Hollywood journey with his best friend Matt Damon, he also shared insights into his anxieties around fame and the challenges of being in the public eye alongside Lopez.
During the chat, Affleck mentioned how Lopez’s fame is on a different level compared to his own. He recounted a story about an outing with Lopez and their children in Times Square, where the public’s reaction to Lopez was overwhelming. Affleck humorously described the scene, noting how people went wild upon seeing Lopez, contrasting it with the more subdued reactions he typically receives.
Affleck also touched on the topic of parenting with Lopez. He discussed the balance they strive to achieve in raising their five children—his three with ex-wife Jennifer Garner and Lopez’s two with ex-husband Marc Anthony. Affleck expressed his desire to provide a better life for their children than the one he had growing up, a sentiment he frequently discusses with Lopez.
The actor also opened up about his “resting b—h face,” a term he used to describe his often serious expression. Affleck explained that his demeanor is partly due to his shyness and discomfort with constant attention. He shared how he dislikes being photographed, especially when he’s with his children, as it often leads to misinterpretations of his mood.
Affleck further elaborated on the performative nature of social media, describing it as an “act” where people curate their lives to present a certain image. He noted that no one posts their lowest moments, and this curated version of life can create a false perception of reality.
The interview also touched on the couple’s rumored separation, with some speculating that Lopez’s fame and social media presence might be a factor. Reports have surfaced about the couple trying to sell their marital home, with Affleck reportedly staying in a rental in Brentwood while Lopez enjoys a solo vacation in Italy.
Despite the challenges, Affleck and Lopez have managed to blend their families since rekindling their romance. Lopez and Affleck were initially engaged in 2002 but called off their wedding in 2003. They reunited in 2021, with Affleck proposing the following year. The couple tied the knot in a private Las Vegas ceremony in August 2022, followed by a three-day celebration at their estate in Savannah, Georgia.
Lopez recently marked their wedding anniversary by sharing never-before-seen photos from their special day on social media. The images captured moments of joy and love, with Lopez expressing her feelings for Affleck in a heartfelt poem.
Affleck’s reflections on life with Lopez and their approach to social media offer a rare and intimate look into their relationship. As they navigate the complexities of fame and family life, their story continues to captivate fans around the world.
