Cindy Crawford, the iconic supermodel and entrepreneur, recently shared insights into her enduring 26-year marriage with husband Rande Gerber. The couple, who have built a life together while navigating the complexities of their careers, attribute their successful partnership to a few key principles.
Crawford, now 58, and Gerber, 62, have always embraced their differences. While they may approach work in contrasting ways, they have found a harmonious balance that allows them to thrive both personally and professionally. Currently, they are collaborating on the launch of Casamigas Jalapeño Tequila, the latest addition to the Casamigos brand, which Gerber co-founded with George Clooney and Mike Meldman.
In a recent interview, Crawford explained that their working relationship is unique. “We definitely have our lanes,” she noted, emphasizing that while she has been involved in the brand from the beginning, Gerber is the marketing mastermind behind it. “He understands the brand better than anyone,” she added.
The idea for the new tequila emerged during a summer spent at their Canadian home, well before the pandemic. Crawford reminisced about sitting on their dock and discussing the possibility of creating a jalapeño-infused tequila. As someone who enjoys spicy margaritas, she felt the concept was a natural fit.
When it comes to the secrets of their long-lasting marriage, Crawford highlighted two essential elements. First, she emphasized the importance of friendship as the foundation of their relationship. “Rande and I were friends first,” she explained. “Even when you’re going through stressful times, the way you treat a good friend is with respect and understanding and compassion.” This strong friendship has helped them weather the storms of life together.
The second key to their successful marriage is their approach to conflict. Crawford stated, “We don’t fight ugly.” She acknowledged that many couples say hurtful things in the heat of the moment, but she and Gerber strive to keep their disagreements focused on the issue at hand rather than resorting to personal attacks. “We try to fight about just what we’re fighting about and not character assassinate each other,” she said.
As empty nesters, with their children Presley, 24, and Kaia, 22, now grown, Crawford and Gerber are entering a new chapter in their lives. They are taking the time to reconnect and explore what this next phase looks like for them. “It’s good if you still like each other at the end of all that,” Crawford remarked, emphasizing the need to recommit to their relationship.
Crawford acknowledged that this transition can be exciting but requires conscious effort. “It would be really hard if one person just wanted to play golf every day and the other person wanted to travel the world,” she noted. Ongoing conversations about their evolving relationship are crucial as they navigate this new stage of life.
The couple has been spending time in Florida, trying new activities together. Reflecting on their life in Malibu, Crawford shared that their home feels different now that their children have moved out. “It’s a little like we’re rattling around in this big house and the ghosts of the kids are everywhere,” she said, recalling fond memories associated with each room.
On a typical day, Crawford and Gerber enjoy a routine that includes hitting the gym together, having lunch, working, and dining with friends. “Sometimes we’re just jam-packed with work, and then other times we’re dipping our toe in retired life,” she explained. They appreciate the balance of staying active in their careers while also enjoying leisure time together.
Crawford’s reflections on her marriage with Gerber serve as a reminder of the importance of friendship, respect, and healthy communication in a long-term relationship. Their commitment to fighting “nice” and maintaining a strong foundation of friendship has undoubtedly contributed to their lasting love.
As they continue to navigate life together, Crawford and Gerber exemplify how a successful marriage can thrive through mutual respect, understanding, and a shared commitment to growth.
Source: PEOPLE
