Lana Condor is mourning the loss of her beloved mother, Mary Condor, who passed away just a few days ago. The 27-year-old actress, known for her role in “To All the Boys I’ve Loved Before,” shared her grief in a heartfelt Instagram post on July 28.
In her post, Lana included a touching throwback photo of her mother holding her hand when she was a toddler. Both mother and daughter wore beautiful white dresses, capturing a moment of pure love and connection. The accompanying caption was a poignant letter addressed to her “beautiful beautiful mama.”
Lana began her emotional tribute by expressing the overwhelming devastation she feels from the loss. She described how the absence of her mother has left her feeling lost and hollow. “I’m laying here thinking about everything I want to say to you, how to put into words the sheer devastation of losing you and how it has carved me out and left me lost,” she wrote.
In her letter, Lana shared her struggle to accept the reality of her mother’s passing. She often finds herself thinking that Mary has simply gone out for a quick errand or that she will call her back soon. “I keep thinking that I still have you here,” she said, emphasizing the deep bond they shared.
Lana credited her mother for shaping her into the person she is today. “I want, I need you to know that every good thing I am, is because of you,” she wrote. She reflected on the invaluable lessons her mother imparted, such as loving others without hate, trusting her instincts, and practicing empathy in a world that desperately needs it.
Mary Condor instilled in Lana the importance of unconditional love and compassion, encouraging her to make these values her first choice in life. Lana also highlighted her mother’s ability to find humor in life, which she believes is essential for survival and a courageous choice that can enhance daily living.
“You infused our world with so much joy and warmth and color that I fear the sunrises will always now feel somewhat muted because you aren’t here to watch them with me, like we always loved to do,” Lana expressed. The depth of her sorrow was palpable as she noted that even though it has only been a few days since her mother’s passing, it feels like an eternity.
In her tribute, Lana shared her hopes for her mother in the afterlife. She imagined Mary “running in the wind” and finding answers to the questions that had always intrigued her. “I miss you with my whole soul,” she wrote, conveying the profound love she has for her mother. She reminisced about how she would often tell Mary that she loved her “more than you could possibly ever know,” and she hoped that her mother now understands the depth of that love.
Lana concluded her heartfelt letter with a prayerful sentiment, expressing her desire to be reunited with her mother one day. “You found me first, and I pray with everything that I am, that you’ll find me again,” she wrote, signing off with “I love you endlessly. Love, Lanzie.”
The actress’s tribute resonated deeply with her followers, many of whom flooded the comments section with messages of support and condolences. Friends and peers from the entertainment industry expressed their sorrow and offered their love during this difficult time.
Lana and her brother Arthur were adopted from an orphanage in Vietnam by Mary and her husband Bob when Lana was just four months old. In a previous interview, Lana reflected on her journey to reconnect with her roots, sharing how her parents encouraged her to embrace her culture and heritage.
In 2021, she recounted a trip to Vietnam with Michelle Obama, where they visited the orphanage that played a significant role in their lives. “We retraced our steps, my parents’ steps to finding us,” she recalled, highlighting the importance of understanding her past.
As Lana navigates this painful chapter of her life, her tribute to her mother serves as a testament to the love and lessons that will forever remain in her heart. The bond they shared transcends the physical realm, and Lana’s heartfelt words remind us all of the enduring power of love and memory.
Source: People, USA Today
