The recent Tell-All episode of “90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After” season 8 has brought to light the tumultuous relationship between Angela Deem and her husband Michael Ilesanmi. Angela, 58, expressed her deep regret over bringing Michael, 35, to the United States, stating, “I wish I never brought him here.” This sentiment was echoed throughout the episode as Angela revealed her feelings of betrayal and frustration.
Angela’s arrival at the Tell-All was marked by a palpable tension. She immediately confided in fellow cast member Big Ed, sharing that her experience since Michael’s arrival had been far from what she had envisioned. “Nothing’s been like what I imagined since I landed in the United States,” she lamented. Her admission was a stark contrast to the excitement that had surrounded Michael’s long-awaited move from Nigeria to the U.S. in December 2023.
The couple’s relationship appeared to be in disarray, with Angela openly questioning Michael’s intentions. “As much as I love him, I don’t trust him,” she confessed, accusing him of using her for a visa. Angela’s frustration boiled over as she declared, “He’s making a f—ing fool out of me.” This raw honesty set the tone for the rest of the episode, where Angela’s emotions were on full display.
When Michael joined Angela on stage, she made it clear that she did not want him to be alone with the other cast members. “You don’t get out of my f—ing sight. Do I make my f—ing self clear?” she demanded, emphasizing her desire to control the narrative surrounding their relationship. Angela was adamant that Michael would not be able to portray himself as the “nice guy” in front of the others anymore.
As the episode progressed, Angela’s anger escalated. She confronted Michael about their marital issues, including the fact that he had been sleeping in the living room and that they had not been intimate for two months. “You knew me for seven years. You got all these people out there in the goddamn world thinking I’m a bitch,” she shouted, revealing her hurt and anger over Michael’s actions. Angela accused him of infidelity, claiming that his “bitch” was in New Jersey, which only fueled the fire of their argument.
Despite Michael’s denials, Angela remained steadfast in her accusations. “He’ll lie and he’ll take that lie to the grave,” she asserted, reflecting on the years of mistrust that had built up between them. Michael, on the other hand, insisted that he would “tell it how it is,” but Angela was not convinced. “Seven years, I’ve seen you do nothing but lie,” she retorted, highlighting the deep-seated issues in their relationship.
The episode was filmed in early February, just weeks before Angela announced that Michael was missing on February 26. In a YouTube Live session, she revealed the distressing news, stating, “Michael’s been missing since the 23rd. The police are involved, we can’t find him.” Angela described how Michael had left without taking any of his belongings, leaving her and the authorities concerned for his safety.
Fortunately, later that day, it was reported that Michael had been found safe after contacting the police. He claimed to have feared for his life while living with Angela, which added another layer of complexity to their already strained relationship.
In the days following his return, Michael addressed the situation in a social media post, stating, “Hello, guys, this is Michael. I just want to quickly make this video to inform the public that I’m not on any social media platform right now.” His vague message left fans wondering about his intentions and the state of his marriage to Angela.
Reflecting on his decision to leave Angela’s home, Michael shared his feelings with Entertainment Tonight. “The reason why I left Angie’s house is because — it’s very very sad — I wasn’t treated like I’m her husband,” he explained. He described feeling like a “nobody” in their relationship and expressed that their constant fighting had taken a toll on him. “Whenever she’s upset, she can do whatever she wants. I don’t want any issue, I don’t want any bad record of my name, so I tend to keep it cool,” he said, revealing the fear he felt in their volatile relationship.
Angela’s regret over bringing Michael to the U.S. has become a central theme in their story. Her feelings of betrayal and mistrust have overshadowed the excitement of their reunion. As the couple navigates their challenges, it remains to be seen whether they can find a way to rebuild their relationship or if Angela’s wish will ultimately come true.
The emotional turmoil displayed during the Tell-All episode has left fans questioning the future of Angela and Michael’s marriage. With unresolved issues and deep-seated mistrust, the couple’s journey is far from over. As they continue to face the fallout from their tumultuous relationship, Angela’s regret may linger, serving as a reminder of the complexities of love and trust.
Source: People
