Bette Midler has recently opened up about the secret to her enduring marriage, which has lasted for an impressive 40 years. In a candid conversation with ET’s Rachel Smith, the actress shared that the key to her long-lasting relationship with husband Martin von Haselberg lies in their choice to sleep in separate bedrooms.
As Midler prepares for the release of her upcoming comedy, The Fabulous Four, she reflected on her own wedding memories. In the film, she wears a wedding dress for the first time in nearly four decades, prompting her to reminisce about her own hasty nuptials. She humorously admitted that she didn’t particularly love her wedding dress, opting for “the first thing on the rack” after knowing her husband for just six weeks.
Approaching their 40th wedding anniversary, Midler revealed her unconventional approach to marriage. “Separate bedrooms,” she said with a smile, explaining that her husband snores. This arrangement has been in place since the beginning of their relationship, and Midler insists that it has made their journey together “fabulous.”
The couple’s decision to maintain separate sleeping quarters has sparked curiosity, but Midler is quick to emphasize that it works for them. She expressed that their relationship has thrived despite—or perhaps because of—this unique arrangement. The actress noted that it has allowed them to maintain their individuality while still enjoying a strong partnership.
In addition to discussing her marriage, Midler also shared her excitement about working alongside her daughter, Sophie, in The Fabulous Four. The film features a vibrant cast, including Sheryl Lee Ralph, Meghan Mullally, and Susan Sarandon, all of whom contribute to the lively female energy on set. Midler’s character is a widow navigating a new relationship, a storyline that promises plenty of laughs and physical comedy, a hallmark of her illustrious career.
Midler’s playful nature was also evident when she joked on Twitter about potentially joining The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills. The lighthearted banter even caught the attention of Andy Cohen, the show’s executive producer. While Midler doesn’t see herself fitting into the show’s demographic, she enjoyed the fun it generated online. “That was a lot of fun,” she remarked, acknowledging the humor in the situation.
When asked if she would consider joining the reality show, Midler expressed uncertainty. “I don’t know, I’m really not sure,” she said. “I don’t think I’m really the demographic, but I think I might be a little too serious for these gals.” Despite her reservations, she acknowledged that the cast is a lot of fun.
Beyond her career, Midler’s reflections on family were heartfelt. She spoke fondly of her daughter, Sophie, whom she described as “the love of my life.” Midler shared the journey of Sophie’s decision to pursue acting, revealing her initial reservations but ultimately supporting her daughter’s passion.
As The Fabulous Four prepares to hit theaters, Midler’s insights into her marriage and family life resonate with many. Her candidness about the importance of separate bedrooms in maintaining a healthy relationship offers a refreshing perspective on love and partnership.
In a world where traditional views on marriage often dominate, Midler’s approach serves as a reminder that every couple must find what works best for them. Her ability to balance her personal life with her successful career is a testament to her resilience and adaptability.
As she continues to navigate the complexities of life, Midler remains a beloved figure in the entertainment industry. Her humor, warmth, and authenticity shine through in every project she undertakes, making her a cherished icon for fans around the world.
The Fabulous Four is set to be released on July 26, and fans are eagerly anticipating the film’s debut. With Midler at the helm, audiences can expect a delightful blend of comedy, heart, and the unique charm that has defined her career for decades.
As Bette Midler celebrates her 40-year marriage, she exemplifies the idea that love can take many forms. Whether through separate bedrooms or shared laughter, the essence of a strong partnership lies in understanding, respect, and a willingness to embrace what makes each individual unique.
Source: ET, various news outlets
