Bryan Abasolo, known for his appearance on “The Bachelorette,” has recently made headlines by declining a $10,000 offer and requesting a higher sum from his ex-wife, Rachel Lindsay. The couple, who met on the reality dating show and married in 2019, are currently navigating the complexities of their divorce.
During a recent podcast appearance on “Hidden Gems With Natasha Parker,” Rachel Lindsay opened up about her regrets regarding their financial arrangements. Lindsay, a lawyer by profession, expressed that she wished they had a prenuptial agreement in place. She explained that at the time of their marriage, their financial situations were more balanced, which influenced her decision not to pursue a prenup. “We were more level,” she said, reflecting on their financial standing when they tied the knot.
Lindsay, who was the first Black lead on “The Bachelorette,” admitted that she and Abasolo were not on the same page regarding prenuptial agreements. She revealed that she didn’t want the issue to become a bigger problem, so they decided against it. “Hindsight is 20/20; I would’ve done it,” she confessed, noting that she always wanted a prenup but didn’t foresee the divorce. “You just never know what life’s going to throw at you,” she added.
Lindsay encouraged those planning to get married to consider prenuptial agreements, calling it a “smart” decision. She also shared that she and Abasolo are still living together, which has been challenging. “The person you marry is not the same person you divorce,” she said, emphasizing that both she and Abasolo have changed since their marriage. This change, she believes, underscores the necessity of a prenup.
Abasolo, a chiropractor, was Lindsay’s final pick on Season 13 of “The Bachelorette,” which was filmed in 2017. The couple got engaged on the show and married in Cancun two years later. They did not have children together. Abasolo filed for divorce on January 2, citing irreconcilable differences, with the date of separation listed as December 31. Court records obtained by The Associated Press indicate that Abasolo is seeking spousal support and has requested that Lindsay pay his legal fees.
In a statement on Instagram, Abasolo expressed his feelings about the divorce, calling being a husband the “proudest role” of his life. He mentioned that sometimes loving oneself and one’s partner means letting go. Despite the emotional toll, Lindsay has been focusing on her work, finding it to be the best distraction during this difficult time.
The financial aspect of their divorce has been a significant point of contention. Abasolo’s request for a higher sum from Lindsay has added another layer of complexity to their separation. Lindsay has been candid about the challenges of their split, acknowledging that both she and Abasolo have changed since their marriage. This change, she believes, is why a prenuptial agreement would have been beneficial.
Lindsay’s reflections on her marriage and divorce highlight the importance of financial planning and communication in relationships. Her advice to others to consider prenuptial agreements is rooted in her own experiences and the lessons she has learned. As she navigates this new chapter of her life, Lindsay remains focused on her career and personal growth.
The couple’s journey from reality TV romance to real-life divorce serves as a reminder of the unpredictability of life and relationships. While their love story captivated audiences, their separation underscores the complexities that can arise when financial and personal expectations are not aligned.
As Lindsay and Abasolo continue to work through their divorce, their story offers valuable insights into the importance of financial planning and the challenges of navigating a high-profile separation. Their experiences serve as a cautionary tale for others, emphasizing the need for clear communication and planning in any relationship.
Source: PEOPLE, The Associated Press
