Ben Affleck has recently opened up about his marriage to Jennifer Lopez, shedding light on the unique challenges and experiences that come with being married to one of the most famous women in the world. In a candid interview, Affleck described Lopez’s level of fame as “bananas,” admitting that the intense public attention surrounding her isn’t something he particularly enjoys.
Affleck, who has always been known for his preference for privacy, shared insights into how he navigates life with Lopez, whose celebrity status often attracts overwhelming attention. He humorously recounted an incident during a family outing to Times Square, where the sheer excitement of fans upon seeing Lopez was almost chaotic. “We get out of the car, we were going to a play, and I was like, ‘F—k it, babe, we’re going to be late, we gotta walk a block and a half.’ [Lopez] was like, ‘Alright,’ she didn’t say s—t,” Affleck recalled. The experience, he said, was “f—n’ bananas.”
The actor, who has three children with his ex-wife Jennifer Garner, and Lopez, who has twins from her marriage to Marc Anthony, often find themselves in the spotlight whenever they step out together. Affleck noted that while he is used to people recognizing him for his movies, the reaction to Lopez is on a completely different level. “People are like, ‘Hey, I like your movie,’ and then they’re like ‘AAAHHHH! J-LO!’” he said, highlighting the stark contrast in their public receptions.
Despite the challenges, Affleck expressed admiration for how Lopez handles her fame. He mentioned that she represents something significant to many people, which is evident in the adoration she receives from fans. However, he also acknowledged that this level of fame isn’t something he is entirely comfortable with. “I don’t like a lot of attention. This is why people see me and they’re like, ‘Why is this dude always mad?’ Because someone had their camera sticking in my face, and I’m like, ‘OK, here we go,’” Affleck explained, addressing his often perceived ‘grumpy’ demeanor in public.
Affleck’s comments come at a time when rumors about their relationship have been swirling, particularly regarding their living arrangements. The interview, however, was conducted before any reports of them living separately emerged. Affleck did not delve into any marital issues or the reasons behind their separate housing, focusing instead on the dynamics of their high-profile relationship.
The actor’s openness about his discomfort with the constant media attention contrasts with Lopez’s apparent ease in the spotlight. This difference in their attitudes towards fame has been a topic of interest for fans and media alike. Affleck’s candidness about his feelings provides a rare glimpse into the personal life of a couple who, despite their celebrity status, face the same relationship dynamics as anyone else.
Affleck’s reflections on his marriage to Lopez and the challenges of navigating her immense fame offer a humanizing perspective on their relationship. While Lopez’s fame may be “bananas,” Affleck’s grounded approach and his willingness to share his experiences highlight the complexities of life in the public eye.